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REJECTED FOR A PURPOSE is a very timely , enjoyable, and uplifting read. It is so what the doctor ordered - RAWSISTAZ Reviewers

Rejected for a Purpose: How God Uses Rejection to help you find and fulfill Your Destiny
Using real-life and biblical examples, this unprecedented book reveals that rejection is not only a vital ingredient to help you find your purpose, but is also a catalyst to help you fulfill it. This work explores three fundamental reasons why you experience rejection, why God uses it, how He uses it, eight benefits of it, and what you need to do in order to experience these benefits. Being rejected is not the end of your life; rather, it's a means to an end for your life. And that end is your destiny. If you've been disallowed from doing something, going somewhere, or being with someone, this book will inspire you by revealing that God uses the hindrance to redirect you to do something else, go somewhere else, or be with someone else. if you've been passed a vote of no confidence, treated like an outcast, described as incompetent, and dismissed by your family, friends, co-workers, clergy or significant other, Rejected for a Purpose will help you understand that the people who refused you, might have done you the biggest favor of your life. Whether you're dealing with rejection in your relationships, family, church, profession or for your convictions, this book will enlighten, empower, and encourage you.

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Toks helps illuminate that the walls of rejection in life are not stop signs but merely detours to get us to our divine destination - Pastor Todd Hull, VP, EMS Management
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Toks is a gifted teacher with a strong and compassionate voice. His message is Bible-based enlivened with stories both ancient and modern, sprinkled with word-play and humor; the result is a book that, if read aloud, would make an excellent series of sermons on the topic
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This book is wonderful!! This is the best book I have ever read on Rejection. AWESOME, AWESOME, AWESOME!!!!!!!!!! Thank you so much!!! - Kendra Williamson, Reviews on Amazon

... O. J. Toks explains with great detail and fantastic illustrations why rejection happens and how it can be for our benefit - Pastor John Bowman, Senior Director, Lakewood Church, Houston, TX
... Perfect for teens, young adults, and adults .... If only I had read this book at the age of 18, then I would have known God and his master plan for my life .... - Kate, Reviews on Amazon
While You Are Single: A Guide to Finding and Keeping the Right Mate for Your Life (Revised & Updated)
Writing with compassion, candidness and humor, O. J. Toks reveals in this revised and updated book, that a person's lifestyle as a single is a seed that will determine the harvest the person will reap as a married person. This points out that learning how to find and keep the right relationship while one is single is the key to saving oneself from unnecessary heartache and pain when one is married. While re-introducing singles to the fundamentals of Godly relationships, and reinforcing biblical truths in the first edition, Toks also addresses new trends in the quest for love.

​This book reveals how singles can set themselves apart to position themselves to receive the mate God has for them. It also addresses the danger of singles making relationship decisions based solely on 3rd party influences. Singles are also enlightened on who to date in order to find the right mate, the purpose of relationships, and what makes marriages successful. Singles are also informed on the link between finding one's purpose and finding one's mate, God's view of inter-cultural relationships, whether online dating is God's best, and so much more. This book  will inform, inspire and impact single adults who desire wholesome marriages.
This book covers every major topic I continually reinforce with people, especially singles. It will make a great series for singles' ministries or individuals who want to save themselves years of pain, suffering and remorse. I encourage singles of any age to read the insights Toks shares in this book. This is a high impact, practical and life-changing read - Pastor John Bowman, Senior Director, Lakewood Church, Houston, TX
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